HIV FROM FINGERING?
Unless you had open sores on your finger and he had a cut in his butt, fingering him was a low risk activity. If you decide to have sex with this man again (or another HIV positive man) and you're still worried, you can reduce any minimal risk further by wearing latex gloves when finger him. The secondary benefit is you donít have to worry about touching fecal matter if you donít want to. Also, using plenty of lube will reduce the chance of small anal tears.
To your health,
HIV testing and care for those who are eligible -- at City Clinic.